ABOUT US

who we are

Lovely Fate was created for those who crave deeper connections, thrilling experiences, and a space where exploration feels natural. We believe pleasure should be social, play should be celebrated, and curiosity should be embraced without judgment. Our events are designed to bring together like-minded individuals in an environment that is both liberating and supportive.

A place to belong

Lovely Fate is not just about indulgence—it’s about creating a space where self-expression is celebrated, fantasies are explored, and connections flourish. Whether you're looking to expand your understanding of kink, embrace your sensuality, or simply connect with others who share your desires, we offer an experience unlike any other.

If you’re looking for more than just a party—if you’re seeking a place to belong, to explore, and to play freely—then Lovely Fate is for you. Join us and step into a world designed for pleasure, discovery, and connection.

OUR MISSION

To create a sex-positive, community-driven space that fosters empowerment, authentic connection, and boundless exploration. We aim to educate, inspire, and uplift, ensuring every member feels safe and free to express themselves in ways that are consensual, respectful, and fulfilling.

our vision

We envision a world where people can freely and confidently explore their desires without shame, where communities are built on trust, respect, and shared experiences, and where personal empowerment leads to deeper connections and richer lives. Through our events, education, and inclusive approach, Lovely Fate seeks to redefine what it means to play, connect, and grow in an ever-evolving world of sexual and emotional expression.

Our events are for members and invited guests only, in order to maintain the warm, safe and uninhibited atmosphere that we have worked hard to create. 

FAQS

  • Our events are a unique blend of adult play party with aesthetic performances and sensory surprises. Each event is created as unique work of art, designed by our team to stimulate the senses and immerse you in our dark, sensual world. There will be interactive scenes, as well as equipment and space for you to do your own play scenes if you would like.

  • Yes!  While some of our members and guests have been into kink for some time, we also have plenty of newer folks at any given event.

  • Our club is a sex-positive space. Many of our members enjoy a variety of sensual play, including shibari, power exchange, tantric connection, sensation play, bondage, impact, roleplay, and all kinds of other fun kinky stuff.

  • Lovely Fate was created by a group of friends in the Los Angeles kink
    community, who wanted to foster a community of open-minded
    people, and host unique, upscale play party experiences. It is now operated as a Private Club, with members serving in various leadership roles. After attending at least one event, members who are interested in being more involved are invited to join one of our volunteer or committee groups.

  • Absolutely not. While you are free to play if you would like, you certainly not obliged to, and there will be no pressure to participate. Guests can simply socialize and watch (fully clothed) if they would like to.

  • Absolutely no pay-for-play, or exchanging money with other attendees for any reason. Rules around edge-play will be posted at the venue.

  • For non-members, there are two ways to attend:

    1. A member can bring you along to an event as their guest.

    2. You can apply to join us through this web site.  We do curate our membership in order to maintain the safe, warm and elegant atmosphere of our events that we have worked hard to create, which is why we ask for a social media profile link (e.g Instagram), so we can get a sense of whether you would be a good fit for our group.

  • Our Code of Conduct is clear that nobody should touch another attendee without permission (including “platonic” touching), and
    our community has enthusiastically embraced this standard.

    If you do choose to play, then you should discuss any boundaries with your play partner in advance. We use a club safe-word, and have dedicated play-space monitors on duty to watch over the events.

  • Our main venue is in the West Hollywood area of Los Angeles. We sometimes use other venues in different parts of LA. Location info is provided as we announce each event.

  • Yes. Our community welcomes people of all genders, orientations,identities and roles.

READY TO PLAY?

No judgments—just the freedom to be you.