About Us
Lovely Fate is a private social club in Los Angeles, California, for people who share an interest in exploring sexuality, kink & ethical non-monogamy. We host intimate and artful play parties, socials and educational workshops. Our events celebrate the many facets of kink and sexuality with unique themes, featured performances and interactive scenes.
Our events are for members and invited guests only, in order to maintain the warm, safe and uninhibited atmosphere that we have worked hard to create. To request an invitation to an upcoming event, click here.
FAQs
What happens at Lovely Fate parties?
Our events are a unique blend of adult play party with aesthetic performances and sensory surprises. Each event is created as unique work of art, designed by our team to stimulate the senses and immerse you in our dark, sensual world. There will be interactive scenes, as well as equipment and space for you to do your own play scenes if you would like.
Who runs the events?
Lovely Fate was created by a group of friends in the Los Angeles kink community, who wanted to foster a community of open-minded people, and host unique, upscale play party experiences. It is now operated as a Private Club, with members serving in various leadership roles. After attending at least one event, members who are interested in being more involved are invited to join one of our our volunteer or committee groups.
How can I attend an event?
For non-members, there are two ways to attend:
-A member can bring you along to an event as their guest
-You can apply to join us through this web site. We do curate our membership in order to maintain the safe, warm and elegant atmosphere of our events that we have worked hard to create, which is why we ask for a profile link (FetLife, Insta, FB etc), so we can get a sense of whether you would be a good fit for our group.
I’m new to play parties. Can I come?
Yes! While some of our members and guests have been into kink for some time, we also have plenty of newer folks at any given event.
Will I be expected to participate / play?
Absolutely not. While you are free to play if you would like, you certainly not obliged to, and there will be no pressure to participate. Guests can simply socialize and watch (fully clothed) if they would like to.
Will other attendees try to touch me?
Our Code of Conduct is clear that nobody should touch another attendee without permission (including “platonic” touching), and our community has enthusiastically embraced this standard.
If you do choose to play, then you should discuss any boundaries with your play partner in advance. We use a club safe-word, and have dedicated play-space monitors on duty to watch over the events.
I’m a Femdom / Maledom / femsub / malesub / gay / lesbian / bi / trans / gender fluid / queer / poly / ethically non-monogamous. Can I join?
Yes. Our community welcomes people of all genders, orientations, identities and roles.
What kinds of play can I do?
Our club is a sex-positive space. Many of our members enjoy a variety of sensual play, including shibari, power exchange, tantric connection, sensation play, bondage, impact, roleplay, and all kinds of other fun kinky stuff.
Any rules around play?
Absolutely no pay-for-play, or exchanging money with other attendees for any reason. Rules around edge-play will be posted at the venue.
Where are the events?
Our main venue is in the West Hollywood area of Los Angeles. We sometimes use other venues in different parts of LA. Location info is provided as we announce each event.